Derouen

Sunday, February 17, 2008

Oral Sex Tips For Pleasing Your Man

Men love to have oral sex. No surprise there. But what many women don't know is that sometimes a guy will prefer to have oral sex rather then intercourse. There are several reasons for this.

1. Doesn't take much time.

2. Man doesn't have to work (let's be honest)

3. Feels good.

There are more, but you get the point.

Many women think they are good at oral sex. Some are. But if your man were honest with you he would tell you that he would not want oral sex at all rather than having it done poorly.

Here are some tips to help you give your man the pleasure that you want him to have.

1. Go Easy. This is a very tender area for a man. Even pressure is nice, but too much pressure will certainly take most of the pleasure away for a man. Many nice evenings have been ruined by rough play. This is one time were guys like it nice and easy.

2. Ask him what he likes. Every man is different. Where one man will like one thing another man will like something different. Don't assume your man is like other men. Ask him how he likes it. At that point adjust what you are doing to give him the pleasure that will make him feel like an individual.

3. Smell is important. Try to involve all of the senses possible. Smell is very important. It is very sensual. If he has a favorite perfume, wear it. The more senses involved, the more intense the experience will be.

4. Go slow. Don't go to fast. Unless your man likes it that way or it is a quickie, don't speed through it like you are late for a bus. Most men want to enjoy the experience of being with you and the longer it last the better it is.

Of course, don't go so slow that it takes hours. At some point you have to land the plane and get off the runway. Moderation in everything

5. Don't play with it. I think this is the biggest complaint most men have. Don't keep playing around, teasing and wasting time. This is not the time to be calling it pet names, talking to it or putting little hats on it.

Stop it. At some point it just gets frustrating and you can actually ruin the mood. This is serious sexual business and now is not the time for games. Fun is nice, but teasing is frustrating.

6. Sound is important. This goes back to involving as many senses as possible. You don't have to make sounds like a porn star to be effective. Just a few words, noises or sounds will really enhance the pleasure of the moment.

7. Know your man. This is the most important part. Every man is an individual. Know what he likes. Don't just assume because you have heard that is what men like. Ask him and he will tell you what pleases him. The main thing is to have an open dialogue and you can't go wrong.

Most men will not say anything because average is better than none. Give your man the sexual pleasure that you want him to have. Make it the best for him and watch him make it ever better for you. Enjoy.

I hope that you like this article. If you did do me a favor and accept this FREE Membership. It is quick, easy and best of all, did I mention it was FREE. Also for more tips visit my site at http://www.hotwomensecrets.com I wish you the best in your relationships.



0 Comments:

Post a Comment

<< Home