No More Sexual Performance Anxiety

What is sexual performance anxiety?

Well it includes but is not limited to:

1. Having trouble getting an erection.

2. Having ongoing problems with premature ejaculation.

3. Fearing that your partner will reject you if you don't please her.

4. A desperate need to please your partner while having sex.

5. Needing to work hard or be in control of foreplay and the sexual act.

6. An inability to relax while having sex.

7. Fear of deeper emotional intimacy with your partner while having sex.

For a significant percentage of men this can often lead to exactly what they fear, rejection followed by the associated trauma that only leads to further impotence and sexual performance anxiety.

What can be done about this unending and progressive spiral into impotence, loneliness and feelings of low self confidence?

Well there are a number of different isues that will need to be addressed.

First it must be recognized that often sexual performance anxiety has its roots in early childhood relationships with one's parents.

A young boy may for instance have an authoritative father who constantly undermines his son's self confidence in order to prop up his own. Often such fathers are in themselves feeling deeply impotent and unconsciously exploit their sons hoping to secure some confidence for themselves. Such fathers can often be heard saying such things as "When I was you age I ....." ( I think you can fill in the blank if you know what I'm talking about).

Such statements are often traumatic to the child and can deeply undermine their self confidence. These emotional "scars" remain embedded in one's unconscious and later can serve to block the expression of their true virility in a number of areas i.e. career success, relationships, as well as sexually

Another example leading to sexual performance anxiety arises when a child has a demanding or needy mother who can never be emotionally satisfied and whose love is given conditionally based on the child being able to satisfy her. This is often seen in emotionally chronically depressed mothers.

The child is left feeling helpless, alone, frightened, and unloved. This imprints in them a deep sense of inadequacy and this can then later turn up in their future relationships.

Another cause, as mentioned above is the repeated trauma that ensues from being rejected by partners on the basis of the man's sexual difficulties.

What can be done about sexual performance anxiety?

Well it has been my expereince working with such men over the last 15 years that the key is to help them release the "root" of their problem from their unconscious mind and body.

By this I mean that the deep memory imprints of trauma must be uprooted and erased once and for all.

Although this may sound hard to believe it is indeed possible to do easily and quickly with a tool I developed over 15 yeara ago called the Mind Resonance Process(R) (MRP).

This is a process that is accessible over the telephone and is available internationally to all.

If you are suffering from sexual performance anxiety or any other emotional issues and would like some real help feel free to contact me at the web link below.

Dr. Nick Arrizza is trained in Chemical Engineering, Business Management & Leadership, Medicine and Psychiatry. He is an Energy Psychiatrist, Healer, Key Note Speaker,Editor of a New Ezine Called "Spirituality And Science" (which is requesting high quality article submissions) Author of "Esteem for the Self: A Manual for Personal Transformation" (available in ebook format on his web site), Stress Management Coach, Peak Performance Coach & Energy Medicine Researcher, Specializes in Life and Executive Performance Coaching, is the Developer of a powerful new tool called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) that helps build physical, emotional, mental and spiritual well being by helping to permanently release negative beliefs, emotions, perceptions and memories. He holds live workshops, international telephone coaching sessions and international teleconference workshops on Physical. Emotional, Mental and Spiritual Well Being.

He is also a Quantum Life Biofeedback Practitioner.

Web Site: http://www.telecoaching4u.com

Star Tattoo Ideas - From Ancient to Space-Age

Stars. The ancient peoples of the Earth first worshipped them, and assigned them the power to direct the fate of each human being. Shakespeares Cassius laments, The fault, dear Brutus, is not in the stars, but in ourselves. The late Carl Sagan, in describing the physical connectedness of human being to the rest of the universe, said, We are all made of star stuff, and in those seven words summed up the mystery of where we came from and where we are going.

The stars were intimately connected with the development of human civilization, first because they enabled early farmers to judge the passage of the seasons and know when to plant or harvest their crops. The patterns in the night sky would change as the Earth rotated, and the people above the equator knew that when Orion was completely visible, winter was on the way.

The stars, and especially Polaris, or the North Star, also made seafaring navigation possible. Ancient sailors would be able to get a fix on their locations simply by seeing how high the North Star was above the horizon. Without the stars to steer by, the Europeans arrival in the New World might have been delayed until the aviation era!

Stars shine and twinkle, and the star closest to us, our Sun, provides the light and warmth which make the Earth the life giving miraculous planet it is. The sun, and all stars, are huge nuclear furnaces with unimaginably intense atomic reactions taking place at their cores which result in heat and light.

The simple truth is that stars have been essential to human survival from the time of the Garden of Eden, and are so loaded with beautiful symbolic meaning that there are some terrific star tattoo ideas.

Some star tattoo ideas for astrology and astronomy buffs are to have an astrological sign tattooed against a galaxy of colored stars; or a miniature solar system with the central Sun being circled by the planets. Shooting stars while they are not actually stars but meteors which burn up when they enter the Earths atmosphere, make star tattoo ideas.

Shooting star tattoo ideas can vary from having a single star with a tail to several stars, as in a meteor shower. And the stars themselves can be different, because the number of points a star design has will change its meaning. Or the star could actually be a sunburst, and the tail could be a made of a few simple lines or a fully developed flame. How about a rocketship blasting off into your own galaxy of shooting stars? Or a shooting star trailing your name?

Other star tattoo ideas can be taken from the history of nautical navigation. The nautical star tattoo was a seafarers way of protecting himself at sea and ensuring that he would find his way home. It has since been adopted by military personnel, and for other people it simply represents the desire for a safe passage through life.

Tthe number of points a star has can be the inspiration for star tattoos ideas; the four pointed star is a symbol of the Star of Bethlehem. The star fish, or five pointed star, is also called a Pentagram, and has a variety of meanings. It meant health to the ancient Greeks, an inverted Pentagram is a symbol of devil worship.

The six pointed star is, of course, the Star of David, and the seven pointed star is a symbol of luck. Star tattoo ides using a seven pointed star can include the paraphernalia of gambling, for lucky sevens. And if you are involved with law enforcement, youll know seven-pointed stars are common as badges.

Count the stars if you can, and youll have an idea of how many star tattoo ideas are waiting, if youll only turn your imagination loose!

Author: Matt Garrett - 2007 www.TopTattooDesign.Com

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